According to Matt Kahn, and I agree:
I love Matt’s basic philosophy; Whatever arises, love it!
A victim is one who views self as a character who doesn’t know how to give attention without something to be concerned about. One who sees life as something to be concerned about attracts a reality of endless concern to character.
An empowered being doesn’t have to be concerned about self or others in order to give loving empowered compliments.
It would be a fundamental shift from being endlessly concerned and instead being in appreciation with compliments. If we lead with compliments we will live in a more complimentary world. We are here to wake up out of the reality of concern.